COLD!~!~! Shanghai reached 2 deg C today... WOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO.... COLD!~!~!~!

WTF!!! DELAYED AGAIN!!! BLOODY HELL!!! FROM 1840 TO 1910... NOW TO 2000HRS!!!! SHIT SHIT SHIT!!!

Merry X'mas... Ho ho ho... Cold greeting here from HK International Airport!! MERRY CHRISTMAS, SINGAPORE!!! haiz... sitting right here waiting for my flight... stupid flight is delayed as I am typing this entry... WAH... spent so much money wor... Spent so much till I ran out of cash wor (TWICE)... HK is a killer... so Guys!! don't bring ur dear shopping queen here... hahahaha... ermmm... Gals!! don't bring ur darling gadget king here... technies stuffs can be quite cheap here... and... ermmm gals make sure ur darling eyes stick on u... hahaha... HK gals are good at dressing up... can easily spot a pretty gals ANYWHERE!! hahahaha... OMG... still have to wait... YAWNZ... falling asleep le la...

hmmm... while I am waiting... briefly say wat I did for the past few days.. hmmm...

21st Dec - Hunting for good food.. WAH... wanton is indeed as big as ping pong ball... Odie nvr lied wor... and got shrimp wor... so fresh... ermmm... I dunno which shop I ate, coz I just anyhow walk around and just pop into a shop... hahaha...

22nd Dec - Morning WASTED! slept till 1 plus!!! OMG... so nice to sleep wor... hahahaha... went for a "morning" walk at the by the sea at Tsim Sha Tsui (TST) and same thing again... anyhow took buses, ferry and MTR and pop to any places and get more cash... hahaha.. OMG... SHOP till NO $$ wor... have go back hotel to deposit my prizes and OH YA!!! I went drinking at nitez... late nitez at the Lan Kwai Fong... WAH... so happening wor... SO WIDE variety of clubs and pubs... yes, call me crazy... HAHAHAHA...

23rd Dec - Morning Walk by the sea again... ermmm.. same things... anyhow pop on the bus and ferry to go around... OMG... it is so crowded lor... barely walk around... my frd told me 24th is the worst... crowd control will be everywhere! Causeway Bay, Mongkok, TST... coz countdown for Christmas... lucky I am leaving on 24th... but my frd said it's a wasted coz in HK, there will be nice firework... ARH!!! AND YES... HP spoilt wor... haiz... have to buy a HP here... kinda regretted... should have get a better model than this old model of Palm... swipe card... sob sob... haiz...

24th Dec... nothing much today... morning walk at the sea AGAIN... trust me... u will never enjoy this walk in Singapore wor... so cooling... so shiok...ermmm... nothing much... received lane at the airport and CONTINUE SHOPPING at the Airport... hahaha... trust me... I spent till the very last bit till i have to draw cash from ATM and used up my spare SGD... Oh ya... SGD got such a strong buying power... hahahaha...

oops... Gate OPENING soon!!! can go in le!!! just nice... batt dying soon... till then this is Jim, live from HK International Airport, Gate 2...

The Five Love Languages

Words of Affirmation

Mark Twain once said “I can live for two months on a good compliment.” Verbal appreciation speaks powerfully to persons whose primary Love Language is “Words of Affirmation.” Simple statements, such as, “You look great in that suit,” or “You must be the best baker in the world! I love your oatmeal cookies,” are sometimes all a person needs to hear to feel loved.

Aside from verbal compliments, another way to communicate through “Words of Affirmation” is to offer encouragement. Here are some examples: reinforcing a difficult decision; calling attention to progress made on a current project; acknowledging a person’s unique perspective on an important topic. If a loved one listens for “Words of Affirmation,” offering encouragement will help him or her to overcome insecurities and develop greater confidence.

Quality Time

Quality time is more than mere proximity. It’s about focusing all your energy on your mate. A husband watching sports while talking to his wife is NOT quality time. Unless all of your attention is focused on your mate, even an intimate dinner for two can come and go without a minute of quality time being shared.

Quality conversation is very important in a healthy relationship. It involves sharing experiences, thoughts, feelings and desires in a friendly, uninterrupted context. A good mate will not only listen, but offer advice and respond to assure their mate they are truly listening. Many mates don’t expect you to solve their problems. They need a sympathetic listener.

An important aspect of quality conversation is self-revelation. In order for you to communicate with your mate, you must also be in tune with your inner emotions. It is only when you understand your emotions and inner feelings will you then be able to share quality conversation, and quality time with your mate.

Quality activities are a very important part of quality time. Many mates feel most loved when they spend physical time together, doing activities that they love to do. Spending time together will bring a couple closer, and, in the years to come, will fill up a memory bank that you can reminisce about in the future.Whether it’s sitting on the couch and having a brief conversation or playing together in a tennis league, quality time is a love language that is shared by many. Setting aside focused time with your mate will ensure a happy marriage.

Receiving Gifts

Some mates respond well to visual symbols of love. If you speak this love language, you are more likely to treasure any gift as an expression of love and devotion. People who speak this love language often feel that a lack of gifts represents a lack of love from their mate. Luckily, this love language is one of the easiest to learn.

If you want to become an effective gift giver, many mates will have to learn to change their attitude about money. If you are naturally a spender, you will have no trouble buying gifts for your mate. However, a person who is used to investing and saving their money may have a tough time adjusting to the concept of spending money as an expression of love. These people must understand that you are investing the money not in gifts, but in deepening your relationship with your mate.

The gift of self is an important symbol of love. Sometimes all your mate desires is for someone to be there for them, going through the same trials and experiencing the same things. Your body can become a very powerful physical symbol of love.

These gifts need not to come every day, or even every week. They don’t even need to cost a lot of money. Free, frequent, expensive, or rare, if your mate relates to the language of receiving gifts, any visible sign of your love will leave them feeling happy and secure in your relationship.

Acts of Service

Sometimes simple chores around the house can be an undeniable expression of love. Even simple things like laundry and taking out the trash require some form of planning, time, effort, and energy. Just as Jesus demonstrated when he washed the feet of his disciples, doing humble chores can be a very powerful expression of love and devotion to your mate.

Very often, both pairs in a couple will speak to the Acts of Service Language. However, it is very important to understand what acts of service your mate most appreciates. Even though couples are helping each other around the house, couples will still fight because the are unknowingly communicating with each other in two different dialects. For example, a wife may spend her day washing the cars and walking to dog, but if her husband feels that laundry and dishes are a superior necessity, he may feel unloved, despite the fact that his wife did many other chores throughout the day. It is important to learn your mate’s dialect and work hard to understand what acts of service will show your love.

It is important to do these acts of service out of love and not obligation. A mate who does chores and helps out around the house out of guilt or fear will inevitably not be speaking a language of love, but a language of resentment. It’s important to perform these acts out of the kindness of your heart.

Demonstrating the acts of service can mean stepping out of the stereotypes. Acts of service require both mates to humble themselves into doing some chores and services that aren’t usually expected from their gender. However, these little sacrifices will mean the world to your mate, and will ensure a happy relationship.

Physical Touch

Many mates feel the most loved when they receive physical contact from their partner. For a mate who speaks this love language loudly, physical touch can make or break the relationship.

Sexual intercourse makes many mates feel secure and loved in a marriage. However, it is only one dialect of physical touch. Many parts of the body are extremely sensitive to stimulation. It is important to discover how your partner not only physically responds but also psychologically responds to these touches.

It is important to learn how your mate speaks the physical touch language. Some touches are irritating and uncomfortable for your mate. Take the time to learn the touches your mate likes. They can be big acts, such as back massages or lovemaking, or little acts such as touches on the cheek or a hand on the shoulder. It’s important to learn how your mate responds to touch. That is how you will make the most of this love language.

All marriages will experience crisis. In these cases, physical touch is very important. In a crisis situation, a hug can communicate an immense amount of love for that person. A person whose primary love language is physical touch would much rather have you hold them and be silent than offer any advice.

It is important to remember that this love language is different for everyone. What type of touch makes you feel secure is not necessarily what will make your partner happy. It is important to learn each other’s dialects. That way you can make the most of your hugging, kissing, and other physical contacts.

Your Expression Number is 9

An idealist and humanitarian, you strive to make the world a better place.You do your best when you follow your feelings and sense of compassion.Deep down, you dream of being loved by many. You are capable of much human understanding and have a lot to give to others.While you are very ambitious, you never lose site of perspective.You have an abundance of creative talents... you just need to tap into them. Although you are a giving person, you can become selfish if you are ignored.If you are not able to help people, you tend to shelf your talents.Without others, you become aloof and start to lack sensitivity.

What's Your Expression Number?

Never Date a Capricorn

Somber, demanding, and freakishly logical. Emotions? It's not clear that Capricorn has them.And while it may be flattering for a Capricorn to be serious about you, bad news: they expect you to be super serious in return. Instead try dating: Aquarius, Gemini, Leo, or Virgo

Sign Shouldn't You Date?

You Are 64% Open Minded

You are a very open minded person, but you're also well grounded.Tolerant and flexible, you appreciate most lifestyles and viewpoints.But you also know where you stand firm, and you can draw that line.You're open to considering every possibility - but in the end, you stand true to yourself.

How Open Minded Are You?

You are 80% Taurus

How Taurus Are You?

You've Changed 56% in 10 Years

You've done a good job changing with the times, but deep down, you're still the same person.You're clothes, job, and friends may have changed some - but it hasn't changed you.

How Much Have You Changed in 10 Years?

December… Can’t believe it is December already. I just felt that it’s a bit too fast for me. Huishan 21st birthday just felt like a few weeks ago and suddenly, we celebrated her 22nd birthday. Things come and go, unknowingly, it has being a year since all the "XYZ" had happened.
2006…

A very fast year for me… I must say a fruitful and eventful 2006 to mark my 24th year of existence on Mother Earth. Seems to have achieve much but yet not that much…

-Found a job
-Doing a degree
-Make new friends
-Took part in TV program
-Regain my interests in drama
-Embarking my first trip overseas ALONE
-Many more…. Hahahaha

Sorrows and burdens, I’d came this far,
I’m moving on and I won’t look back.
Joys and laughter, I’d brought with me,
I’m moving on and I won’t look back.

Embarking a new journey to a new beginning,
Seeking a new path to a new year ahead,
Weaving a new dream to a new goal,
I won’t regret and moving on…

2007… Here I come…

Nothing to do wor... so bored... do quizes la.... Behold for all the quiz entries....

Spent the entire night to do this VCD for XTOMIC... WOW... felt a great sense of achievement... time to rest...

XTOMIC: Lane of Memories... Enjoy...