Awaiting for rainbow after a shower.....: April 2006
Awaiting for rainbow after a shower.....
Sunday, April 30, 2006
The Five Love Languages
My primary love language is probably Quality Time with a secondary love language being Physical Touch.
Complete set of results
Quality Time:
11
Physical Touch:
8
Words of Affirmation:
7
Acts of Service:
3
Receiving Gifts:
1
Information
Unhappiness in relationships, according to Dr. Gary Chapman, is often due to the fact that we speak different love languages. Sometimes we don't understand our partner's requirements, or even our own. We all have a "love tank" that needs to be filled in order for us to express love to others, but there are different means by which our tank can be filled, and there are different ways that we can express love to others.
Can some wise man explain to me what the difference between nasi briyani and chicken briyani?
Waiter 1: Can I have your order, please? Friend: Nasi Briyani, Chicken... (paused for 2 second) Is it the fried one or the curry chicken one? Waiter 1: huh? It's the rice one... My friend and I stared at each other... Friend: I know, I mean the chicken, fried chicken or curry chicken? Waiter 1: No, no, no.... It is rice one... Friend: (flipping the menu) This one... (pointing at Nasi Briyani, Ayam) curry one har? Waiter 1: (with deep indian accent) No.. This one finish already... We left with Chicken Briyani.... Friend: (puzzled) What is Chicken Briyani? Waiter 1: It is the chicken in the rice... My friend and I stared at each other with LOTS of question marks... Friend: Then what is Nasi Briyani? Waiter 1: The chicken on the rice... My friend and I stared at each other with MORE question marks... Waiter 1: So you want the Chicken Briyani? Friend: ermmm.... later then we order... we flipped thru the menu first...
My friend and I were still TRYING hard to figure the difference between Nasi Briyani and Chicken Briyani... eventually, we gave up... we asked for another waiter...
Waiter 2: Yes! Friend: Ask you har, what is the difference between Chicken Briyani and Nasi Briyani, Ayam? Waiter 2: No difference la... We both laughed.... Friend: okay, can I have the chicken briyani and the............
Got a shock this afternoon... got an overseas call... Yes, Ying'er called me... She will be leaving Shanghai to Singapore... I was shocked coz I believe this wasn't her plan or business trip... met her for a meal just now... some local food... hahaha... SURPRISINGLY, she didn't gave me any presents like the previous years... Ying!! Where is my Swizterland's clock?? hahaha...
Me: Aren't you suppose to be in Shanghai for at least 2 or 3 weeks? Ying: I was there for more than 2 weeks already... Me: OOoo... How's time flies... hmmmm.. Aren't you suppose to return UK? Why did you come Singapore? Ying: Bemause I misish my work mover aaaat Shangai.... Me: PLEASE... Don't eat with you mouth full... She looked at me... Me: hahaha... I mean don't talk with your mouth full... Ying: (trying to swallow all the food in her mouth) hahaha... Thanks arh! I finish my work at Shanghai so I came back Singapore to celebrate your belated birthday and I will be going to KL on Tuesday.... Me: haiz... you har.. forever travelling around.... Ying: mmmmmm mm mmm mm m mm mm m m mm mmmmmm Me: Girl... please do not talk with your mouth full!!! hahahaha
Well, she turned stronger and more mature each time I saw her... She changed a lot... more and more confident of herself each time... can't believe she is the one who easily broke into tears..Perhaps I should change too....
Perhaps I am sick.. or I am lost in some lala land... I have so much things in my pea brain... I tried writing them to sort it out... but the list went on and on and on... NON STOP!!! OMG... Overloaded with lots of stuffs... hmm... get more stress by writing them down...
having a very IMPORTANT "appointment" this coming Friday... My future is going to depend on it... HOPEFULLY everything turn up nice and sweet... Losing sleep and concentration over this... hahaha...
On my way home just now, my mind went blank and it seem that I was walking aimlessly... simply so lost... at least, I reached home safely... kekee... hmmmm... think I need to see my neuro soon... I am having more and more uncontrolled movement... like nodding of head, shaking of hands... freaky!! hopefully nothing serious... hahaha
Ah choo... Ah choo... I am extremely sick today... being sneezing and coughing throughout the night... not to mention the running nose that disturb me the whole night... I feel so giddy...
Met up with Kenneth just now for dinner... chit chat for a while... hmmm... look like life wasn't that bad after all... kekee...
I guessed what he said is right... I must pick up the courage to persue what I like... Seek the achievement... and yes... he mentioned something made me admire him more... Kenneth!! You are indeed such a wonderful brother!!!
Oh YA!!! I saw RAINBOW!!! YEAH!!! HAPPY!!! BEST present from Mother Nature Earth to me.. "Hi Mother Earth, we share the same birthday except you are MUCH more older than me... Thanks for you rainbow present! Sorry, I didn't get you anything... Happy Birthday, Mother Earth!!!"
22nd April le... It's EARTH DAY!!! And I'm getting older and older each day... haiz... went to have steamboat with 1 of my good frd last night to celebrate my birthday... absulutely bloated after dinner... not expecting anyone to remember my hatch day... I am very happy to have Lane to be the first one to send me good wishes... and she sang Happy Birthday over the MSN to me.. OOOOOOOO... how sweet!!! and send me a "cake", virtual cake, my first birthday "cake" for the past 7 or 8 years... She made my day...
This year birthday is a different one... One which I am all by myself... I remembered in the past, I have my ex-gf to celebrate with me... after broke up, I always have my buddies to celebrate with me throughout the whole night... I missed those times... I always have April to have a dinner with me coz our birthday are just 3 days difference... although not the same day... but no harm celebrate it early... But she's away in Australia... I always have Ying'er pestering me and cooking good meal for me... but she's too away from Singapore... ermmm... dunno where now... (Oei, you are in London, Hong Kong or Shanghai now?) haiz.... miss those time...
This year is so much different... perhaps I shall go library and bury myself in books....
Okay... after checking with Ying'er, the PR job that I desired wasn't PR... It is customer service... I like customer service line... not PR line... Okay, thanks Ying...
I kept wondering if I am really cut for chemical line... R&D or lab kinda job... somehow or rather, I felt that I am lack of something in my career fulfilment... I am lack of that "achievement"... which actually made me felt that I am dragging my feet to work... perhaps it is not the company that I wanna work in which gave me that idiotic feeling...
I sat down these few nitez and started thinking about my work and my interests... I think that although my area of studies are in Chemical Engineering... but my interests still go back to PR and creativity/innovation... WHICH actually don't make any sense... I am such a shy guy... one that don't really like to talk too much and I wanna do PR??
Perhaps it is just an emptiness I felt which caused me to have the desire to be in the PR line... What shall I do??????????
All the world's a stage, And all the men and women merely players: They have their exits and their entrances; And one man in his time plays many parts, His acts being seven ages. ==================================== Life's but a walking shadow, a poor player, That struts and fret his hour upon the stage, And then is heard no more; it is a tale Told by an idiot, full of sound and fury, Signifying nothing. ==================================== Chains do not hold a marriage together. It is threads, hundreds of tiny threads Which sew people together Through the years. That is what makes a marriage last - More than passion or even sex! ==================================== Do not stand at my grave and weep: I am not there. I do not sleep. I am a thousand winds that blow. I am the diamond glints on snow... Do not stand at my grave and cry; I am not there, I did not die. ==================================== Time is Too slow for those who wait, Too swift for those who fear, Too long for those who grieve. Too short for those who rejoice; But for those who love, Time is eternity. ====================================
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty; it is compatible neither with obedience, jealousy, nor fear: it is there most pure, perfect and unlimited, where its votaries live in confidence, equality and reserve.
If you were a movie, you'd be a Groundbreaking Documentary
If you think documentaries are boring, think again. Like your movie match, you're an intelligent individual who makes people think. Documentaries span all sorts of topics, from the trivial to the profound. Perhaps your interests do the same, but one thing's clear — you're a smarty and you like to learn.
We'd guess you're the person at the dinner table or the water cooler who stirs up lively debates about the latest news or tidbits from the Discovery Channel. Part of you probably gets a kick out of creating controversy and getting people fired up about their beliefs. Another part probably likes opening people's eyes and sharing your thoughts. And for that, you get two thumbs up for trying to get to the bottom of things and making waves! What Kind of Movie Are You?
No bones about it, you're an adventurous Scottish Terrier. Fearless, feisty, and always up for a challenge, you like having things your way. Some people might even label you stubborn or headstrong. But we know you're just ambitious and motivated. (Being misinterpreted is such a trial, isn't it?) Besides, your can-do attitude serves you well when facing challenges at work or in your personal life. No job is too big, and absolutely no obstacle is going to stand in your way. You're always ready, willing, and able to rise to the challenge. A loyal, caring friend, you choose your pals very carefully, then stick by them through thick and thin. Woof!
Okay okay... I admit... I am getting kinda crazy today... in fact very crazy... HAHAHA... nothing to do at home and did up this IDIOTIC stupid home video... find it kinda funny... so decided to share with u all... kekee...
I am awaken by a idiotic phone call at 0730hrs... should not have answered that idiotic phone call... a call from someone whom I shall not name... from a place which I shall not say...
Well, she is known to reached office early and the last to leave the office... why first to reach? act busy and hardworking... why last to leave? so that she can claim the taxi fees (she live in the fast east)... That's not the main issue... She called me to ask STUPID question which she could easily get the answer at her own end or any other time EXCEPT 0730hrs in the dreadful morning when I was still happily playing chess with zhou gong (meaning sleeping)... If I am not wrong, there is something serious that happened and she looking for a poor goat to be sacrificed... yes, a scapegoat...
I'm getting crazy and very temperamental these few days... Changes as the weather changes... For one moment, I wanna eat ramen, next moment I want spaghetti... ARHH... and my desire of Ben & Jerry is driving me crazy everyday... Should have it last week at Great World... ARHHHHHHHH.... too late to regret!!
You tend to be understated and under appreciated. You have a hidden force to do amazing things, doing them your own way. People may see you as strange and shy, but they know little. Your unconventional ways have more power than they (and even you) know.
Your strength: Standing up for what you know is true
"The world in my story is different, where sound transcends into silence and light into darkness... This is my world. Where nothing can be seen nor heard. There is only one name for my world, BLACK"
I just watched "Black", a bollywood show about a Deaf-Blind girl and her teacher, as recommended by Lily... OMG.... It is VERY nice lor... I cried during the show... The show remind me of the life of Helen Keller... I guessed the director made it that way... From the show, I learnt something very meaningful...
"Impossible is one word that Mr. Sahay never taught Michelle and what you call impossible, she will make possible."
So guys.... DO watch the show... 5 out of 5 stars....
